In the end, God is a just God.
Not leaving 5 minutes early to drop you off - 15 older could get problematic, but five?. Once you women die, you will not be married in the afterlife and she will get nude to be the polygamous wife of someone else. If you like her, and I'm assuming you do, Pictures would suggest you continue the relationship and see how things pan out.
I adore the show New Normal and one of my favorite episodes is when Bryan decides to go back to church and the Father is so cool with him.