Read that entire speech and you will see a slew of racist statements.
You are brave and good people and seem to be raising wonderful children who will be lights for everyone with whom they come in contact. Anyway, before you marry you should work out anything hypothetical that might come up in the future.
The independent work is just as important as the work we do as a couple. It's hard right now because he's on a general surgery rotation so his hours suck and I never see him.